N.A.S.

Since last week, I've been encouraging my girlfriends to text guys that they like but don't really have the courage to do so. I mean I'm no expert at talking to guys either, but it's easier to give other people advice than it is to take it yourself. So a couple of nights ago, when I was helping my friend text a guy she was CRAZY about, IT HIT ME.
N.A.S. No this does NOT have anything to do with the rapper. It's an acronym that I  RANDOMLY came up with. It means Niggas Are  Simple. El.oh.el. After I thought about it it made me laugh, but it is SO TRUE. When it comes to texting, ESPECIALLY when girls text guys for the first time, they analyze EVERY LITTLE THING. (I've been a witness to this over the past few days.)We try to figure out when is the right time, what we should say, how we should say it and all that other ISH. And while our mind is going CRAZY about how we need to approach the situation, the guy calmly answers each text in what it seems like SECONDS. ...WOW... We are CRAZY. El.oh.el. SMH.
I mean have you ever text a guy for the first time, but before you text him you were freaking out on the inside about what to say and stuff? El.oh.el. I mean I have LITERALLY thrown my phone after texting a guy just so I could force myself not to be caught up in when he text me or if he even text me back. No one has probably gone to MY extreme, but...SMH. That's pretty low. #sadday
Well I'm writing this post today letting ladies know that there is no longer any reason to stress yourself over the once dreaded "FIRST TEXTS." Those days should be put behind us. We should adapt the attitudes of those dudes we stress over, and just be COOL. Whatever happens HAPPENS. And who knows, we might not be alone. They could be stressing out just as much as we are. *pauses* Or maybe not. Haha

Until next time,